| Hypocrite: a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion; or a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings. (Miriam-Webster Dictionary)
We say we believe in God. Still, many do not believe in the precept that God, in whom we claim to believe, provides us with every grace in abundance (see 2 Corinthians 9). We always have enough of what we need, at least enough of what matters. So, why not give as freely as one who knows that she or he has more than enough? Give to others with an open hand, i.e. let them take what they need with the trust that they will not take more than is necessary.
When I was a boy my father used to take me to the Holy Name Society breakfasts. It was very special. First, it made me feel more grown up, second, they had great donuts and scrambled eggs and sausage and toast and orange juice. It was a great breakfast! One time, as we waited for the bowl of eggs to make it down to our end of the table, we watched as one of the men took a large helping, leaving very little to be shared by the other men, including me, who were yet to receive the eggs. No problem, my father took the bowl and got some more. There was an abundance of eggs. But, my father was upset. In the car on the way home he told me that I should always look to see how many others have yet to receive the food at group gatherings like this and only take my portion or less. The man in reference could have taken a smaller portion and then taken some more from the second bowl, but at least we all would have been served by the first offering.
Giving, taking, receiving, offering, sharing...etc. are all ways in which we demonstrate how we are in relationship with one another. Are we attentive to each other? Do we consider each other’s needs, etc.? Praying, fasting, almsgiving, etc. are ways by which we can become more aware of the other, including being more aware of God. Selfishness is not natural. It is learned. Greed is learned. Insecurity is learned, early. Who gives example of alternative behavior and relationships? Those who are humble enough to see beyond themselves.
Plant/sow bountifully and you will reap bountifully. Don’t hold back. Share yourself with others and allow the abundant grace that is already within you become the grace that you willingly share with your neighbor. This Eucharist is an act of this sort.
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